The Portland boudoir photoshoot prep guide (What to expect & how to serve)

I’m Gracie, a creative Portland boudoir photographer. I love working with my clients to design sessions that feel completely personal—whether that means sultry, playful, moody, weird, or all of the above. Together, we’ll nail the vibe with creative styling, props, locations, poses, music, and an experience that make you feel like you.

My goal with every Portland boudoir session is simple: to make it fun, empowering, and totally tailored to you. I want you to show up feeling prepped and excited (a little nervous is totally normal), and leave like you just crushed a first date, landed your dream job, and got a killer haircut—all at once.

Let’s talk about how we get there:

Let's dive into the behind the scenes of the pre-photoshoot process. For me it's all about creative collaboration and a simple client process to achieve the perfect boudoir photoshoot experience.

Mood Boards: Your boudoir blueprint

One of the first things we’ll do? Make a mood board. It’s the best way to get us on the same page for your boudoir session. We’ll pull inspo for poses, lighting, styling, the vibe—whatever speaks to you. I send every client at least one mood board before their shoot, so we’ve got a clear creative direction and you know exactly what we’re working toward.

Trust me: a good mood board isn’t just inspo. It gets us hyped and keeps the whole experience cohesive and authentic to YOU.

Boudoir Themes + Creative Concepts (aka: so many cool ideas)

Not sure what kind of shoot you want yet? No worries, I’ve got a running list of ideas that I’m dying to bring to life. Some past faves (and dream concepts) include:

• Midsommar May Queen: ethereal florals + moody studio vibes

• Galentine’s Pajama Party: cozy, fun, bring your besties

• Vintage Playboy Aesthetic: classic, high-glam pin-up looks

• Creepy-Cute Couple Shoot: flash photos + weird-core

• Bathroom Mirror Magic: messy hair, killer lipstick, steamy vibes

And that’s just the start. Whether you have a full-blown vision or no clue where to begin, we’ll collaborate to craft something that feels personal and creative (and makes you feel 🔥).

Here are a few mood boards I've used for shoots in the past - send me a message to get an update on the latest mood boards or to book one of these concepts.

(all photo credit to original creators on Pinterest)

Boudoir Shoot Day: Making the most of the experience

Shoot day is basically a celebration of YOU. You’re encouraged to do whatever makes you feel amazing—book that glam squad, make a playlist, pop some champagne. The goal is a vibe that’s relaxed, fun, and totally you.

We’ll ease into things so you can get comfortable on camera, and don’t worry if you’re not a pro at posing (literally who is). My job is to guide you with a mix of candid prompts and gentle direction so you never feel awkward.

Depending on which boudoir photo package you book, we'll have anywhere from 1-4 shooting hours to get the shots. And that time can also be used to finish picking out outfits or touching up hair and makeup looks (these can make for some of the best photos). A lot of those candid, "behind the scenes" style moments can make for really great intimate lifestyle and boudoir photos.

Boudoir Photoshoot Locations: Portland, OR edition

One of my fav things about boudoir photography? We can shoot literally anywhere. Whether you want studio vibes, an outdoorsy escape, or something a little quirky, we’ll figure out the best spot based on your vision, comfort level, and budget.

For indoor shoots, there are a few great local studio spaces like boudoir sessions at New Wave Studio or Studio Northwest, but I also love thinking outside the box. Some of my favorite shoots have been in old-school motels—The Viking Motel and Capri Motel are Portland icons with that vintage, slightly gritty look that photographs so well (and usually won’t break the bank for a few hours). Renting a cute Airbnb or snagging a room at a luxe spot like The Hoxton can also make for amazing boudoir photos.

If you’re feeling outdoorsy? We’ve got endless PNW options. A Forest Park boudoir photoshoot is a classic—super lush and surprisingly private for being right in town. Want to level it up? We can head out to Latourell Falls or Wahkeena Falls in the Columbia River Gorge for something wild and dreamy (pro tip: early mornings = fewer people). Check out this Oregon waterfall elopement guide for even more waterfall location ideas around Portland.

Bagby Hot Springs is an adventurous pick if you're down for a little hike + steamy vibes, and spots along the Clackamas River or Sauvie Island can give a laid-back, summery feel without too much travel.

Boudoir Props: Little details, big impact

Props are low-key my fave part of a shoot because they tell a story. Want to bring candles? A stack of magazines? Your favorite mug, blanket, or vinyl records? Hell yes. Whether it’s a delicate piece of jewelry or pizza + beer, these little touches add layers of personality and make your photos feel even more “you.”

We’ll go over everything—props, looks, shoot schedule—in advance so you feel totally prepped and excited going in. A few of my other fav boudoir prop ideas that are a little out of the box?

• Skulls or bones (for dark gothic energy)

• Plastic wrap (great for wrapping around the body or props)

• Glass panels (awesome for shooting through)

• Wind machine & fog spray (to bring the vibes)

• Fruit / candy / anything JUICY

• Sheer gloves (honestly looks AMAZING)

• Ashtray / lighter / cigarette holder (vintage of course)

What to wear to your boudoir session

Here’s the thing: lingerie can be anything. Lace and garters? Great. Oversized sweater and nothing else? Also great. I always recommend bringing a few different options, including layers you can mix and match (think: robes, oversized button-downs, sheer fabrics, blankets).

And hot tip: robes are your best friend. Sheer, silky, fluffy—whatever your vibe, they add texture and look amazing on camera. Check out my guide on what to wear to your photoshoot for even more outfit ideas.

How to Pose for your Boudoir Photoshoot: A mix of candid and directed portraits

You don’t have to know how to “pose”—that’s my job! I’ve got 10+ years of experience behind the camera and a go-to lineup of poses and prompts that’ll help you feel relaxed and confident. We’ll mix up candid, documentary-style shots with more structured poses, depending on the vibe you want.

Some faves? Leaning back in a chair, lounging in bed sheets, laughing mid-movement, or catching your reflection in a steamy bathroom mirror. We’ll reference your mood board throughout, so we’re never scrambling for inspo.

Boudoir Photography FAQs

How much does a boudoir photoshoot cost in Portland?

Boudoir photography pricing in Portland can vary a ton depending on the photographer and what’s included. My packages start at $550 for a mini session and go up from there based on time, number of looks, and add-ons like professional hair + makeup.

Do I have to wear lingerie for my boudoir shoot?

Nope! Boudoir is about you feeling good, period. Lingerie is a classic option, but you can wear literally anything that makes you feel hot and confident—oversized shirts, robes, bodysuits, cozy sweaters, or even nothing at all. We’ll chat about outfit ideas during your planning process.

Can I bring my partner to my boudoir shoot?

Yes! Whether you want your partner there for moral support or want to get them in on the shots, we'll make it work. Couple’s boudoir can be super fun and intimate. Whether it’s spicy or soft, we’ll work together to make sure it feels natural and comfortable for both of you. Just let me know ahead of time if you’re thinking about adding a partner to your session.

Will you share my boudoir photos online?

I'll never share any of your photos without your explicit permission. Some clients are excited to share their photos (which I love), but many prefer to keep them private—and that’s 100% respected. If you do decide to give permission for sharing, we’ll always agree on exactly which images are OK to post.

Do you offer professional hair and makeup?

I don’t include it automatically, but I love working with stylists for boudoir shoots. Professional hair and makeup can make a huge difference in both how you feel and how the photos turn out. I have a list of awesome local hair/makeup artists I love working with, and I’m happy to help coordinate that.

When’s the best time to book a boudoir session?

Most people book 1–2 months in advance, but I suggest reaching out as early as possible if you have a specific date or occasion in mind (like a wedding gift or birthday surprise). Bonus tip: If you want to gift the photos, book at least 4–6 weeks out to allow time for edits and prints.

Why book a boudoir photoshoot?

Honestly? There are countless reasons—and you don’t need a "big" one to justify it. A lot of people book boudoir as part of their Portland wedding photography package (think: a spicy gift for your partner), or for Valentine's Day, anniversaries, or birthdays. But boudoir is also amazing for you. Whether you’re celebrating a milestone, marking a new chapter (hello, maternity or post-breakup glow-up), or just want a confidence boost, boudoir is a killer way to honor where you are right now.

TL;DR? Life's short, you're hot: book the damn shoot

Boudoir is for everyone. Whether you’re marking a milestone, boosting your confidence, or just want to celebrate the fact that you are hot right now, these photos are a gift to your future self.

Life’s short. You’re hot. Let’s make some magic. ✨

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